
Father Wounding
John R. Hatfield BraveManSociety Wounding A physical, mental, spiritual, or emotional hurt or blow causing damage and harm. Eliciting feelings of anger, sadness, and pain.

Stillness
John R. Hatfield BraveManSociety “All of humanity’s problems, Blaise Pascal said in 1654 “Stems from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” I

Fear
Face Your Fear John R. Hatfield BraveManSociety “The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” Nelson

The Lost Blueprint of Fathering
John R. Hatfield BraveManSociety Things we need to know as a SON from a FATHER The following are twelve significant truths fathers (or father figure)

Discouragement
John R. Hatfield BraveManSociety Disappointments will come and go but discouragement is a choice you make. Charles Stanley Discouragement “A loss of confidence, or enthusiasm,

Ten Truths to Develop
John R. HatfieldBraveManSociety Discover and be you. Be honest. Lead you. Treat everyone with respect. Let honor and valor overtake you. Forge the virtues that

Bad Ass Virtues
BraveManSocietyJohn R. Hatfield Bad Ass Virtues: The things that hurt, instruct Benjamin Franklin Bad ass virtues represent those virtues we as men need to embrace,

BOTCHED APOLOGIES
Published University of New Mexico Mentoring Institute John R. HatfieldBraveManSociety We have all botched an apology at one time or another. Most of us have no

I’m Sorry
Two Powerful Words John R. Hatfield www.BraveManSociety.com Published at The University of New Mexico Mentoring Institute. Saying I’m sorry just may be two of the

Resilience Don’t Tap Out
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places Ernest Hemingway Yep, we are in this together. Adversity is a fact

Betrayal
“Only those you trust can betray you.” Terry Goodkind If you trust someone, you believe that they are honest and sincere and will not deliberately

Resilient Actions
John R. Hatfield—BraveManSociety—Jrhfield@gmail.com “Resilient people turn fear into courage, suffering into strength, and pain into wisdom.” Eric Greitens “There is only one road to human

Leading Cultural Change Through Mentoring
Presented at the International Mentoring Conference, University of New Mexico. Research claims the success rate of culture change is only 54%. Mentoring the key stakeholders

It Takes Courage
It takes COURAGE to admit when you are wrong. It takes COURAGE to be vulnerable. It takes COURAGE to be true to yourself. It takes

The Crucible of Brokenness
The Undesired Element That Molds Great Leaders. “The things which hurt, instruct.” Benjamin Franklin In today’s leadership culture brokenness is not a quality leaders desire

Mentoring Those Dealing With Shame
PUBLISHED AND PRESENTED AT THE UNM MENTORING INSTITUTE ALBUQUERQUE, NM John R. Hatfieldhttps://Bravemansociety.comIG Bravemansociety “A PERVASIVE SENSE OF SHAME IS THE ONGOING PREMISE THAT ONE

22 THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER
John R. Hatfield. The past cannot be changed, tomorrow can. Opinions don’t define your reality. Everyone’s journey is different. Be honest. Love conquers hate. Choose

The buck stops here
A sign on Harry Truman’s desk read, The Buck Stops Here. As president he knew there wasn’t anyone else to blame. You are the PRESIDENT

Ten Relating Truths
John R. Hatfield. 1) When you are wrong, admit it.2) Seek to understand before being understood.3) Let it go.4) Listen.5) Stop having to be right.6)

If You Aim At Nothing, You Hit It Every Time
John R. Hatfield. Do you live life from a place of default or a place of design? AIM To be purposeful in your daily and

What Character Quality Is The Most Powerful?
John R. Hatfield James Kouzes and Barry Posner leadership experts have surveyed over 75,000 people with the question, what quality is most admired in a

Leadership FIRST starts with knowing how to LEAD yourself
To lead is to be first in or among, to begin

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